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	<title>Comments on: How Important Is Forgiveness?</title>
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		<title>By: ru4real</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 13:52:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;@ Katie: &lt;/strong&gt;I&#039;m so glad some of my posts have been an encouragement to you. I&#039;ve been surprised at how many people have mentioned to me that God has been teaching them about forgiveness lately. I believe forgiveness is tremendously important in the life of a believer. We need ALL the encouragement we can get to do it right and to do it constantly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>@ Katie: </strong>I&#8217;m so glad some of my posts have been an encouragement to you. I&#8217;ve been surprised at how many people have mentioned to me that God has been teaching them about forgiveness lately. I believe forgiveness is tremendously important in the life of a believer. We need ALL the encouragement we can get to do it right and to do it constantly.</p>
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		<title>By: ru4real</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 13:45:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;@ Patricia: &lt;/strong&gt;I&#039;m with you ... the modern mantra of &#039;Forgive and Forget&#039; doesn&#039;t really work. Who can forget a thing like incest? Forgiveness is not a one time choice. It is a process of choosing to forgive every time the memory comes back. It is a process of returning to Father God and asking Him to love us through the hurt ... again. And it is a process of choosing a life of healing rather than a life of bitterness. I admire you, Patricia, for choosing to be loving, caring, forgiving, and compassionate. May the Lord give you an extra measure of grace to help you continue living a life filled with compassion and mercy and strength.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>@ Patricia: </strong>I&#8217;m with you &#8230; the modern mantra of &#8216;Forgive and Forget&#8217; doesn&#8217;t really work. Who can forget a thing like incest? Forgiveness is not a one time choice. It is a process of choosing to forgive every time the memory comes back. It is a process of returning to Father God and asking Him to love us through the hurt &#8230; again. And it is a process of choosing a life of healing rather than a life of bitterness. I admire you, Patricia, for choosing to be loving, caring, forgiving, and compassionate. May the Lord give you an extra measure of grace to help you continue living a life filled with compassion and mercy and strength.</p>
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		<title>By: Katie at Listmaker's Life</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katie at Listmaker's Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 18:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tammie,
I am really enjoying you posts (today&#039;s and some oldies...)  This one is a good followup for me on my thughts on getting to the bottom of forgiving others instead of trying to cover it up.  I appreciate your honesty and thoughtfulness in your posts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tammie,<br />
I am really enjoying you posts (today&#8217;s and some oldies&#8230;)  This one is a good followup for me on my thughts on getting to the bottom of forgiving others instead of trying to cover it up.  I appreciate your honesty and thoughtfulness in your posts.</p>
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		<title>By: Patricia - Spiritual Journey Of A Lightworker</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 19:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank God that forgiving doesn&#039;t require forgetting.  I practive forgiving just about everyday.  I don&#039;t want to forget the incest because it helps me to be the loving, caring, forgiving person that I am today.  If I forgot, I might lose the ability to be compassionate with myself and with others.  

Wow!!!  I haven&#039;t thought about forgiveness and forgetting in quite this way before.  I may have to sit down and do some writing about this for myself.  Thanks for the inspiration to do that writing.  That is why I love bloggers and blogging.  Have a glorious day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank God that forgiving doesn&#8217;t require forgetting.  I practive forgiving just about everyday.  I don&#8217;t want to forget the incest because it helps me to be the loving, caring, forgiving person that I am today.  If I forgot, I might lose the ability to be compassionate with myself and with others.  </p>
<p>Wow!!!  I haven&#8217;t thought about forgiveness and forgetting in quite this way before.  I may have to sit down and do some writing about this for myself.  Thanks for the inspiration to do that writing.  That is why I love bloggers and blogging.  Have a glorious day.</p>
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		<title>By: ru4real</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2009 04:46:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;@ Ruth:&lt;/b&gt; I agree, we can&#039;t use forgetting as a basis for forgiving. Forgiving is a choice and a process.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>@ Ruth:</b> I agree, we can&#8217;t use forgetting as a basis for forgiving. Forgiving is a choice and a process.</p>
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